HE SAYS HE LOVES ME.

According to a study taken by me, yes I did, six in every ten girls suffer from one sort of physical or emotional trauma from relationships they are involved in. So for the other four girls, stop complaining and appreciate your man.
Which is even worse; physical or emotional or both???? Some girls are even in some relations where, it would be way better if the guy hits them so that they would know where to express their pain from.  I have friends who have gone through really terrible relationships, given their hearts to a guy who stabbed it and sucked out the life of that dear heart of theirs. There comes a time when enough is enough. When you have to stop accepting unnecessary BS from your partners. I say this because even guys pass through this from their partners too.
Then, I saw this tweet pic of a girl, who her boyfriend, beat the living day light of her and she is happy about it, as you can see for yourself, below. This kind of person needs better flogging from all those cele priests because it is obvious she is possessed and is not in her right senses. A guy beats you to the extent there is blood all over and you are calling girls with self respect hoes??! Now I know why Bae beat you the way he did.





You call yourselves friends, have ever asked your friend how good she is and how her relationship is going? Not necessarily being a poke nose but someone who cares instead of being over absorbed in yourselves. Show that friend compassion today, don't ignore and turn a blind eye. No matter how difficult it may seem reach out to your friend and show her you care and you are there to listen. Or is it when she dies, that you will cry your eyes out and say, "I saw it coming I wish I had done something sooner".... NOW IS THE TIME!
Fantasia, singer songwriter, has a new song out titled lose to win. I believe it totally explains all I have being trying to say all the while. The video is out and you can watch it on youtube. I personally love her performance of the song on the just concluded American Idols (2 months back). So it here, and the lyrics to follow, for those of you who have poor connection, yes I had you in mind.

This is the moment you wished you had better connection;

I cried bullets after watching her life performance because she came all out and almost cried. You would be the most unfeeling human being if you didn't get goose bumps all over your body. Someone is suffering, give that person a hug today, it will go along way to show just how much you care.

The lyric;

"Lose To Win"

Hmmm-hmmmm

Ever felt so ugly, pretending that he loves me
Sometimes it’s just not money never had to afford me
Now I’m sick and tired of you just taking right off
Knowing I'd forgive you

You ain’t here for dinner
Like I’m a beginner,
I loved you for your inner, inner, inner
And the next guy is out there somewhere,
But you won't dare 'cause you’re too scared

[Chorus:]
Have you ever needed someone so bad
But he ain’t willing to make it last?
Sometimes you gotta lose to win again.
If it makes you cry, cry, cry
And all you do is fight
Can’t get no sleep at night
Sometimes you gotta lose to win again.

Ever felt this sorry? All you did was worry
You didn’t want nobody, thought it would get better
But it’s falling more than
Oh it’s falling more than ever
I just hoped that we would
Cause you’re always up to no good
Maybe it’ll take someone else, to show me better
But I don’t wanna leave ya
Oh, yeah.

[Chorus:]
Have you ever needed someone so bad
But he ain’t willing to make it last?
Sometimes you gotta lose to win again.
If it makes you cry, cry, cry
And all you do is fight
Can’t get no sleep at night
Sometimes you gotta lose to win again.

Some of you know what it feels like
Caught up just in his life
Don’t wanna try again, thinking what’s the difference?
Why am I not interested?
Cause when you’ve been broken, you feel like no one can fix it
Yeah

[Chorus:]
Have you ever needed someone so bad (needed someone so bad)
But he ain’t willing to make it last (whoa, yeah)?
Sometimes you gotta lose to win again (win again, oh and if it makes you cry)
If it makes you cry, cry, cry (cause all you do is fight)
All you do is fight
Can you not sleep at night (sometimes you gotta)
Sometimes you gotta lose to win again. (gotta lose, yeah yeah)

(Oh, oh, whoa)
(Oh, sometimes you got to lose, you got to lose, to win again, yeah)
Hey!

Have you ever needed someone so bad? (have you ever?)
(so bad yeah)
To make it last
Sometimes you gotta lose to win again (Sometimes you gotta lose to win again)

This is an Afghan young bride, just 15, who was beaten, tortured locked in a room without food for days, by her husband and his family. They were sentenced to 10 years imprisonment but on recovery, she learnt they were freed. Now she is scared of what they might do to her next. She is just one of a few stories of women who are suffering. Young, old, married, single, its never too late to yourself together and move out for good!